Hey hey bloggers do today I have a story for you! There have been this brother I have been dating and yesterday he truly got me mad, but surely like I tell you beautiful ladies I went about things like a lady. Yesterday I experience the factor of a hood dude, regular dude, and the nigga who just plain ain't got it. This topic was brought up by my best friend and I Giselle whom is also many reasons to my entries. Yesterday one of the men I date eventually asked me to a trip to the bahamas and because of just the random dudes I have experienced I took it to be untrue, after dening his ass and he surely going hard about it, I gave in and stated yes. He then had the nerve to ask me if I am going because it's free or because I like him! LADIES! when a man ask you a questions as dumb as this one after he begged you to go with him it is time to move on! And he became a factor of a hood dude, because plainly this same corn ball stated I was two high maintance to date because I wanted to go to the movies, and had the nerve to say he has a box office in his house! Again LADIES! never have a man offer the movies in his crib, ESPECIALLY if your not a couple because only my man will get the likes of cuddling up watching a horror film. This is what I mean by limiting, we should never just settle for no straight hood dude.
My next man is the regular dude. This dude consist of the tshirt and jeans call it a day, but is still willing to
do whatever he has too, to keep you stuck to him. There is other guy who just buy me stuff to get my attention and to keep me in mind little do he know I am not interested in him at all! LADIES if this dude buy you stuff return it! Especially if you have no form of relationship with him because of course being a stalker is not only his thing,but he will need to be placed in a mental ward because truly in his heart he is sooooo in love! This guy one guy I dated but cut short because he was needy because like that and surely a sista ran the other way. LADIES! Don't limit yourself and surely don't take nothing from him because dudes like the owning factor.
Last is my favorite the dude just don't got it! This is deticated to my baby mama Gigi who shut down all that baby mama shit and showed that women can always hold their own. Ladies if you have a baby father who ain't right by you and you surely seen never was just get on your high horse and put all those worries behind because you and your baby will be fine! Now I know there are a few girls who desperately love their wack ass bf and the nigga just ain't got it! Be like my baby mama after she pushed out the baby she lost all the weight she had, focused on her to children, and told her bf fuck off because obviously he is the same nigga who just don't got it! So for you ladies who run behind a dude who just ain't got it, you look deseperate and no one like a desperate chick! FYI if you feel this is you don't get offended it should make you stronger. Ladies look at these men and go and focus on yourself because in life if your Independent like me and simply tash b and even Gigi and let dudes like these go.
Saturday, May 1, 2010
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
CHECKING...
THE FRONT DESK EACH DAY TO SEE IF MY PACKAGE HAS ARRIVED...
IT'S GOING TO BE ONE HOT SUMMER!!!!!
Brooch for flare...why not?!
Saturday, April 24, 2010
Mr. right and Mr. right now
Hello ladies now this is a real reader. Friday, I found myself on a date in a situation of the Mr. right and Mr. right now. I went on a date with a real cool guy that showed me mister right does exist! Last night while talking to this awesome and yet very different man I found out that the nice guys do end last, and that we as ladies rush into situations with what I call the "bigger and better" in our minds. When talking to him Friday, I noticed he confided in me with a lot about himself not only made me respect him more, but made me like him a little more. He basically went from a quick hook up, to being Mr. wow. But now ladies, don't fall in love to quick it was just a date; I did not see marriage, moving in , or children at all! So when I brought this up to simply tash b it was a shocker to her as it was to I, and at that moment she stated words that I think every lady should here "it's sad to see how these girls (you) run around and do themselves instead of waiting for right man." (not the exact words, but close lol). When talking to this guy, I learned that chasing a dude, running behind one, or even trying to have him be your puppet is not the RIGHT way! We look in to many things and see that the man we want is not the man we have, but he should be the man that you embrace. Today many of us young professional (like simply and I) we look for the Renaissance man. The renaissance man is the thinker, provider, and the romantic; yes we all wish to have this man but ladies!!!!! he does not exist!!!! The Renaissance man is created.
Today after having a beautiful lunch with Tash B. I seen a home girl on facebook. She is married, with a child (who is not her husband's), she has no education past high school, and last; her man lives in a whole different place and he has a child with another girl! See now I am not saying that the situation is bad, but it works for her. I say this every time I see a friend in a horrible situation and I tell you, LADIES STOP LIMITING YOURSELVES! We look at ourselves in the mirror every morning and catch ourselves playing the I REFUSE! game. Stop sayig I refuse this or that, but that I will try this or that. Ladies to limit yourself is just a set up, not to the good life, but to the low life.
Many of my family members, friends, and yes parents! judge me about being single, but what I do ignore it. I never seem to make myself feel sour about being single I actually enjoy it , as Samantha (sitc) would say " why be stuck with one man, when you can try them all" and that's what I decided to do try them all, and when I mean them all I mean men of all ages, races, and styles. I have a preference and in due time if we are meant to be together he will transition in to the man I held down, respected, and fell in love with. Not the man I created.
We think in life that all we have to do which is get a man, build the man we want him to be, and voila la hombre de dreams appears! right! nope wrong. When you build a man you build a man for another woman. When you have a man just do the three obvious things; never seem available, never call him to many times, and always show him you have options; as much as a brother will tell you he hates the chase, girl he really appreciates it. A man never continues with a female with avaiblitity, and if he does he is a control freak! I always find myself to be very outspoken, and maybe a lot of "boys" might feel I am doing to much, but a "man" will see what is wrong about him and try to change for the better of the relationship.
Ladies to complete this I say Live Love and Louboutins because your way of life is the only way you can be proud of whom you are.
Today after having a beautiful lunch with Tash B. I seen a home girl on facebook. She is married, with a child (who is not her husband's), she has no education past high school, and last; her man lives in a whole different place and he has a child with another girl! See now I am not saying that the situation is bad, but it works for her. I say this every time I see a friend in a horrible situation and I tell you, LADIES STOP LIMITING YOURSELVES! We look at ourselves in the mirror every morning and catch ourselves playing the I REFUSE! game. Stop sayig I refuse this or that, but that I will try this or that. Ladies to limit yourself is just a set up, not to the good life, but to the low life.
Many of my family members, friends, and yes parents! judge me about being single, but what I do ignore it. I never seem to make myself feel sour about being single I actually enjoy it , as Samantha (sitc) would say " why be stuck with one man, when you can try them all" and that's what I decided to do try them all, and when I mean them all I mean men of all ages, races, and styles. I have a preference and in due time if we are meant to be together he will transition in to the man I held down, respected, and fell in love with. Not the man I created.
We think in life that all we have to do which is get a man, build the man we want him to be, and voila la hombre de dreams appears! right! nope wrong. When you build a man you build a man for another woman. When you have a man just do the three obvious things; never seem available, never call him to many times, and always show him you have options; as much as a brother will tell you he hates the chase, girl he really appreciates it. A man never continues with a female with avaiblitity, and if he does he is a control freak! I always find myself to be very outspoken, and maybe a lot of "boys" might feel I am doing to much, but a "man" will see what is wrong about him and try to change for the better of the relationship.
Ladies to complete this I say Live Love and Louboutins because your way of life is the only way you can be proud of whom you are.
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