Dating and just plain ole' hanging out

Ladies.... Today's posting is about to things we tend to confuse ourselves with dating and just some good ole' hanging out. This topic was brought up by a friend of mine the other day. One day while talking and eating we came up with the concept of just hanging out when I asked him why don't you ever claim to go on a date with a girl he stated "because when you date, you are the other party feels that they are obligated to something with the other person"(e.g. men wanting sex, and women wanting a relationship). Than I asked him so what is considered hanging out, and he stated "that is when and the other person are just talking and there is no obligation to anything." After we finished "Hanging out " I really began to think of what my friend said about just that and I realized that most of the time I went out with guys and we established a date that it was an "obligation", but the reality was that only one person was looking for an "obligation" wasn't me. My statement to all my beautiful single and non-single divas a man is always oligated to something, but little do they know that we are the X-factor and the control of everything, we only make them obligated to something when we present ourselves that way, so ladies, ladies, ladies lets make this a hang out session, and when we feel obligated to becomes dating.

signing out ....
Org. Diva

QUANTITY VS QUALITY

So yesterday I accompanied a good friend of mine on a shopping "extravaganza"!! My day started with me concentrating on shoes and sheets and it turned into anything that caught my eye. I had a GREAT time and it was the most fun I had in a while! We laughed and even cried (I tripped up the stairs and stubbed my big toe...OUCH)!!! At dinner, we had a very insightful conversation...Quantity over Quality!!!!

I truly believe in investment pieces, pieces that will last! It doesn't matter if you have one pair of shoes or one handbag as long as that one item will stand the test of time. When splurging be aware of the following:

1. Is it a trendy piece? I suggest not investing in trendy pieces because as you all may know trends come and go

2.Get a neutral color that you can wear with anything and everything.

3.Don't be afraid to spend more money. If you wear it everyday for the next year or two the price per day will equal less than the price of a grande pike roast. For example: If you spend $1200 on a bag and you wear it everyday for two years (trust me it will last that long) that's only $1.64 cents a day.

I have been blessed to say that in my 13 years of wearing heels I have yet to experience a malfunction (breaking a heel) yes i've had to get the heels done (before the nail shows) a few times but any woman knows that's essential, I mean it's only four bucks for crying out loud!

What do you ladies think? Quantity or Quality?

Vacations for Divas

Hey Divas looking for quick getaway! Well look no further for the town of cuba, haiti, and Jamaica all in one beautiful M.I.A and not for Memorial day weekend but for that exciting weekend where you can get a beautiful tan, party night till day, and meet some very sexy shoes ;-) we are evening welcoming the Kardashins and Bad Girls club there sooooo like Big Willy said ....Welcome to Miami!

Shoe Language !!!!!

Hey fans know u missed me and Tasha B, but of course when your a lady with a single life there is nothing more fun to do than explore the possibilities of life, and what those you ask? Well in the shoe language it's called Choo, Vuitton, and Mr. Cole. this spring I created a new language called shoe language. Shoe Language+ a language that describes the level of sexy you see in a person that is trying to pursue you, FYI you can also claim yourself in shoe language. For example, I describe myself as a Louboutin (new, fresh, and hard to get); Ms. Tash I would describe as a Vuitton ( Vintage, fashionable, and the original Diva of all young Divas). See I created language while talking to a pursuer (not a real word) on my cell phone. While speaking to him I notice not only was he a boring, and nonchalant man he was an American Eagle (the most high priced shoe in Payless, but no way do I shoe in there!) he just was not on my level and soooo not for me. Another pursuer I noticed was what I call the Vuitton/Kors remix he was very vintage and extraordinary, but with a Miami touch. He had it all sex appeal, older, and very intelligent. And that's one man I knew to keep in touch with. But ladies, let me not be your guide on dating, but your advisor whether you like Choos/Vuitton like me and Ms. B or Airmax/Pastry like your average around the way girl. Remember men are like shoes if you feel its not the right if go back for your refund instead of having it in your closet collecting dust. FYI shoes are an accessory always to be showed 2X's , and if your man isn't one hell time to do some spring cleaning!

EFFORTLESS STYLE!!!

IT'S OK KIMMY, I DIDN'T LIKE REGGIE FOR YOU ANYWAY!!!

Pics via Gettyimages, Kimkardashianfan.net

Haute

Peep the Pigalles...

Walmart oh how I love theeeeeee

Oh and JCpenny too (lol)

Currently in my cart...

INSPIRATION

I HAVE DECIDED TO FOCUS ON ZEBRA PRINTS, BROWN WITH AQUA SPLASHES, GOLD (FOR OPULENCE) AND SHADES OF CREAM (BEIGE OFF WHITE) CHECK OUT MY INSPIRATION BOARD!

Pics courtesy of decorpad.com

BEEN GONE FOR A MINUTE NOW I'M BACK WITH THE JUMPOFF...

OK PEOPLE I'M BACCCCCK!!!!

So much has been going on. I'm in the middle of putting the finishing touches on my place, planning a housewarming, and a pajama party, all while trying to keep up at work, plan a weekend getaway with the bestie, get right and tight for the summer (shhh) and gather my spring/summer look! phew, that was so a run-on sentence but that best describes what has been going on!!

Stay Tuned!