THE FRONT DESK EACH DAY TO SEE IF MY PACKAGE HAS ARRIVED...
IT'S GOING TO BE ONE HOT SUMMER!!!!!
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Brooch for flare...why not?!
Saturday, April 24, 2010
Mr. right and Mr. right now
Hello ladies now this is a real reader. Friday, I found myself on a date in a situation of the Mr. right and Mr. right now. I went on a date with a real cool guy that showed me mister right does exist! Last night while talking to this awesome and yet very different man I found out that the nice guys do end last, and that we as ladies rush into situations with what I call the "bigger and better" in our minds. When talking to him Friday, I noticed he confided in me with a lot about himself not only made me respect him more, but made me like him a little more. He basically went from a quick hook up, to being Mr. wow. But now ladies, don't fall in love to quick it was just a date; I did not see marriage, moving in , or children at all! So when I brought this up to simply tash b it was a shocker to her as it was to I, and at that moment she stated words that I think every lady should here "it's sad to see how these girls (you) run around and do themselves instead of waiting for right man." (not the exact words, but close lol). When talking to this guy, I learned that chasing a dude, running behind one, or even trying to have him be your puppet is not the RIGHT way! We look in to many things and see that the man we want is not the man we have, but he should be the man that you embrace. Today many of us young professional (like simply and I) we look for the Renaissance man. The renaissance man is the thinker, provider, and the romantic; yes we all wish to have this man but ladies!!!!! he does not exist!!!! The Renaissance man is created.
Today after having a beautiful lunch with Tash B. I seen a home girl on facebook. She is married, with a child (who is not her husband's), she has no education past high school, and last; her man lives in a whole different place and he has a child with another girl! See now I am not saying that the situation is bad, but it works for her. I say this every time I see a friend in a horrible situation and I tell you, LADIES STOP LIMITING YOURSELVES! We look at ourselves in the mirror every morning and catch ourselves playing the I REFUSE! game. Stop sayig I refuse this or that, but that I will try this or that. Ladies to limit yourself is just a set up, not to the good life, but to the low life.
Many of my family members, friends, and yes parents! judge me about being single, but what I do ignore it. I never seem to make myself feel sour about being single I actually enjoy it , as Samantha (sitc) would say " why be stuck with one man, when you can try them all" and that's what I decided to do try them all, and when I mean them all I mean men of all ages, races, and styles. I have a preference and in due time if we are meant to be together he will transition in to the man I held down, respected, and fell in love with. Not the man I created.
We think in life that all we have to do which is get a man, build the man we want him to be, and voila la hombre de dreams appears! right! nope wrong. When you build a man you build a man for another woman. When you have a man just do the three obvious things; never seem available, never call him to many times, and always show him you have options; as much as a brother will tell you he hates the chase, girl he really appreciates it. A man never continues with a female with avaiblitity, and if he does he is a control freak! I always find myself to be very outspoken, and maybe a lot of "boys" might feel I am doing to much, but a "man" will see what is wrong about him and try to change for the better of the relationship.
Ladies to complete this I say Live Love and Louboutins because your way of life is the only way you can be proud of whom you are.
Today after having a beautiful lunch with Tash B. I seen a home girl on facebook. She is married, with a child (who is not her husband's), she has no education past high school, and last; her man lives in a whole different place and he has a child with another girl! See now I am not saying that the situation is bad, but it works for her. I say this every time I see a friend in a horrible situation and I tell you, LADIES STOP LIMITING YOURSELVES! We look at ourselves in the mirror every morning and catch ourselves playing the I REFUSE! game. Stop sayig I refuse this or that, but that I will try this or that. Ladies to limit yourself is just a set up, not to the good life, but to the low life.
Many of my family members, friends, and yes parents! judge me about being single, but what I do ignore it. I never seem to make myself feel sour about being single I actually enjoy it , as Samantha (sitc) would say " why be stuck with one man, when you can try them all" and that's what I decided to do try them all, and when I mean them all I mean men of all ages, races, and styles. I have a preference and in due time if we are meant to be together he will transition in to the man I held down, respected, and fell in love with. Not the man I created.
We think in life that all we have to do which is get a man, build the man we want him to be, and voila la hombre de dreams appears! right! nope wrong. When you build a man you build a man for another woman. When you have a man just do the three obvious things; never seem available, never call him to many times, and always show him you have options; as much as a brother will tell you he hates the chase, girl he really appreciates it. A man never continues with a female with avaiblitity, and if he does he is a control freak! I always find myself to be very outspoken, and maybe a lot of "boys" might feel I am doing to much, but a "man" will see what is wrong about him and try to change for the better of the relationship.
Ladies to complete this I say Live Love and Louboutins because your way of life is the only way you can be proud of whom you are.
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
HATERS ARE ESSENTIAL!!!!
Those that pray on my downfall or love to hear negativity you are the ones I hold dearest to my heart because it is you that remind me each day of how far I've come and how blessed I am!!!!
HATERS I NEED YOU!!!! YOU MOTIVATE ME!!!! WITHOUT YOU I WOULDN'T BE WHERE I AM!!!!!
Sunday, April 18, 2010
good friend, bad friend, and straight plain ole hater
To all my bbf I love ya'll especially you tash
Sunday, April 11, 2010
Let's shop till we drop!
Ok ladies it is spring time! We have found awesome styles, and awesome spots. My fave place in the NYC is Soho. Soho is the land of sale, style, and originality! A few spots I suggest for you college girls with a budget mystique, forever 21, H&M, and sample boutiques. For my career woman; Zara, Ann Taylor, and H&M also (career section). And last, for you spunky girls with a lil of everything I suggest the side walk sales! They have very crafty people who make items by hand that can complete your outfits!
Here are a few samples....
Saturday, April 3, 2010
Rethinking Life, Marriage, and Yourself
Today's entry is dedicated to those whom thought that they couldn't make it, but by their own and God's will, did! The other day Tash B and I went to see Why Did I Get Married Too?(the sequel to Why did I get Married?), and funny enough this movie inspired my entry today on rethinking marriage. I know you might be thinking, "what about life and myself?"" well good question because those two parts were inspired by friends (Life), and myself(yourself). Lets start with the category of Life. Life means( to relate to a being), which in my sense means to relate to everything around you and embrace it! Your life is not a toy to be played with, but should be a diamond that you carefully take care of, and scarifie to no one, but God (for those who believe). I look at my life and look at all the obstacles I been through, all the scarifies I made, and all the goals I accomplished, and than said to myself "Thank You God for making me experience another day". Sometimes in life, we complain about something as little as not having our own apartment (example of me), but little do we think of those people that have to work three jobs just to maintain the rent next month. I also have heard people complain about a little headache they can take aspirin for, but little do they know there are people out there on dialysis waiting for a transplant, and still wake up every morning to go to work an 8 hour shift. People, people, people especially you ladies, lets not waste life on worrying about the little things; such as, clothing, make-up, and OMG! men. We surely have more to life than that. Now you maybe wondering what about the "marriage" part... well i was getting to that. Marriage (a bond that brings two families together as one); when watching the movie I observed it from not a viewers eyes, but a psych majors eyes. There were plenty of metaphors and similes that in the movie; that made me observe that marriage or a relationship, as Tash B stated is a job within itself. Sometimes, I sit and daydream what will it be to be married, and than wake the hell up.Marriage or relationship should not be played with, but respected and appreciate by both parties. Remember it is a 50/50 or as I like 80/20(the man is known to be the provider in every way), but ladies we can always pick up the slack to and build our men sometimes. The matter of the message is though; that life is a blessing and we should thank God for every morning we wake, and that marriage is a union that brings not a family, but a couple together to embrace each other. I ask of you ladies follow these simple words, and you will see you and only you can embrace your own future.
Friday, April 2, 2010
Content
It seems as though when single women hit a certain age it's almost as if they have been given a time stamp on their life. I can admit that I too have been guilty of this, but as time has progressed I have realized that it truly isn't THAT serious!!! I have been able to see both sides of the spectrum and can honestly say that I enjoy being single and even question whether or not being married and having kids is something that is even important to me anymore. Relationships are like a second job!! It takes A LOT of work and although it can bring happiness it also has its sad moments as well. The biggest plight is learning to TRUST that person and that's something that I do not have an easy time doing. Relationships carry many expectations that people tend to not understand! So in saying all that I find that for now it's much easier to just lay low and enjoy the freedom. Who knows my outlook may change but for now it's all about trips, food, and fun!!! Oh yeah and shopping lol!
Top down approved!!!
OK GO HEAD TEAIRRA....I for one know those low profiles are costly!!!!!
This will for sure be blaring with my top down this summer...ladies get familiar!!!!!
10 Dating Rules to Help Single Gals Stay Sane
Okay ladies it is a must that you copy this address below and insert into your site thingy...whatever it's called!!!
This article has to be the most insightful guide to being single that I have read in a looooong time!!!
DO IT NOW!!!!!
http://www.bvonlove.com/2010/03/23/dating-rules-for-single-women/
Side Chicks
While cruising clutch mag I came across a very interesting article "The OFFICIAL Official Rules for Side Chicks". The article outlined three rules:
1) Don’t be one.
2) Don’t be one.
3) No really, honey…don’t be one.
I totally agree with ALL three however there is an exception to the rule and that is not KNOWING you're the side chick!!!!
Check out the article
http://clutchmagonline.com/lifeculture/feature/the-official-official-rules-for-side-chicks/
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