New Beginnings...

Today I woke up to an extraordinary text that not only hit me, but also changed my life. My topic today is not concerning LOVE but the first topic on this blog LIVE! Everyday we wake up to new and great things we fall in and out of love, gain or lose a career, or as everyone says start new and leave old news behind. In the process of reading facebook statuses of friends; I bumped on one that really made me wake up to the lies that was told to me for four months from someone who I thought loved me, or better yet was in love with me! but what I did, not get mad just went to playing farmville... I know you may be thinking that I was crazy, and that you would of went in. But I learned I left that person a mystery for a while for a reason because I knew that the games was played and no I wasn't in love, and I left happy. LIFE stands for( live in faith everyday); I may be coming off religious, but I learned that in life and for you to LIVE; you have to be happy with yourself. My next example is the friends that are in my circle, right now Ms. B and I have been the only two in our circle of friends who have really pushed ourselves to expand our lives. I look at most of my friends or associates because I have but a few friends, and wonder why they never start fresh, and what's their PROBLEM! hey always have an excuse. My thing is who goes for a BA for 5 years and never complete a major, but hops to the next, or who starts school and drops out with no plan, or someone who lives home to home and has no where to really call their own, and last has children and no plan for themself or children's future. We all try to live in competition or battle with ourselves; I know because I go through it, but the main thing is that we fail to look in what we have and our accomplishments, and that's what breaks us up. Back to my example... love may not be ready for me, but I learned that there are plenty of men who want to be with me and I will let them know I LIVE. So when you ready for a new beginning ask yourself first, whats the definition of life?

signing out
Da Org. Diva

Accomplishments vs. Failures

Today bloggers have have once again in my life have become a failure, but I have learn that one failure can always help me complete my goal. I have notice that not only that our failures can ruin us and our energy, but also the people around us. One thing I learned living in a big city such as new york that if you can make it here you surely can make it any where. It starts from education, to a job/career, to a relationship. Ther main thing every girl looks for in the big city is love, while the men sit and look for their big break. We look at a failure to not only a pain in our hearts or a thorn in our backsides, but the disater to everything else in our lives. Ladies, ladies ladies... have you ever try to signify a goal of Accomplishments or try to complete any no! But you surely are alway looking for the wrong in a man, the BM drama, or the cheating. These are all failures as women who are now in 2010 we need to accomplish our goals and find the accomplishments of love, and getting rid of the failures.

moving in and moving on

welcome fellow readers da org. diva here, so this weekend Ms. B finally moved in and moved on to new and better things and here is were my topic comes from. As we discussed, many friends we looked into have been in many relations they explore and try to manage, we discovered that many of them especially the females can't move in and move on. I use this topic today to not only show women, but also men that life has stepping stones and that if we work hard and commitment we can overcome any obstacles and any disadvantages that may come our way. I learned long ago from very wise men that you NOTICE a sign that a man isn't interested so before you make him express that to you, you move in (express your feelings and that you don't see anything going anywhere) and move out ( take your bag offer to take care of the check and like they say walk with a chip on your shoulder) COME ON LADIES it's pure common sense and not only will it shows confidence it will make a man notice that you are not interested in games and you have other options, and in the end they will surely run to you. I will give you an example me, I have a new boyfriend and he couldn't get the routine till the "THREAT" he was currently going through a situation as were he was taking his time with ending it with another female so I did what I had to do threaten. I told him that I am grown and as much as I love him I have no patience for the bull and that if he didn't end it with the other female and think he was going to have chocolate cookies and butter pecan cookies he was highly mistaken and that butter pecan cookies with be definitely removed off his selves and placed in a more high maintenance grocery store. And after 3 days of ignoring, talking to other men, and not paying the men came to his senses and stated that not only did he love me, but was in love and he finally made that step. Of course I was happy, but I wanted him to prove it because words are words ladies and men we need to learn that when its time to move in, it is surely time to move on


signing out
yours truly
xoxo
Da Org. DIVA

Next up to bat!!!

SCORE!!!!

Ok so as you all remembered one of my 2010 goals was to make more economical purchases...needless to say I am quite proud of myself. I took to the streets with bestie in tow and perused the mall. I have never paid much attention to Bakers shoes until Ms. Recessionista herself Meagan Goode was spotted in the coolest Bakers Booties. Fell upon the coolest platforms for a mere 70 bucks!!! So loving bakers right now!!! How cute and totally Fendi'esque!!! So cannot wait to pair these with a some chinos and a tank!

Also scored the coolest sweater from forever 21 which would be perfect with a pair of leggings and over the knee boots!!!

men, live and relationships

Welcome one, welcome all...

I am the new lady to this blog, but not the only the org. diva has life he life with men, toys, and the city and has easily joined LiveLoveLouboutins. There are three things we as woman enjoy in life is clothing, shoes, and sex! and yes again sex! Now this is finally 2010 remember the Y2K error when there was new fashion, great trends, and Sex and the City was the hottest show for women of all ages; well its 2010 and me and my bff Tasha B has not only combined blogs, but we have incorporated an old blog to a blog that made both of show not only our friends and aquiance our experience in life but you readers of all races, ethnicities, and pop culture style to understand what it is ti LLL(LiveLoveLouboutins). As I tell you of the relationship aspect of life and the experiences of friends, acquiances, collages, and my own life; my lady Ms. Tasha B will be hitting you what is in not only for the season and the price range, but where also can get it an afforable price. So I say to you fans of Love, Shoes, and the City welcome to 2010 and please feel free to leave your comments at the door....


vxo Org. Diva

New Year New Things!!!

2010!!!! Just the sound of it sounds futuristic. To accompany the new year this blog will be going in a different direction. My bestie and I have teamed up to create a dual blog of sorts, two for the price of one!!! Not only will you get a dose of fashion but you will also get a dose of life and love!! Look forward to video logs and Q&A sessions.

This year will bring about the biggest change for me. I will officially be trading zip codes (aka moving). It will definitely be an adjustment for me as my surroundings will be very different!!!! I look forward to the change and the opportunity to exude my knack for responsibility (side eye). Although I've never been the type to make any resolutions I do plan on focusing on my body, my health, and my finances this year. I also vow to be more of a bargain shopper and only invest in key pieces!

All in all the year seems to be a promising one!!

SimplyTashaB