Saturday, May 29, 2010
Using your inner Samatha!
Love ya,
ORG. DIVA
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Lesson Learned...
Do not make someone a priority when to them you're only an option (an oldie but goodie that means more to me now then ever before)
Confide only in those that confide in you
Give only what you are given
Extend yourself only to those that will extend themselves to you
Jealousy is a disease that many are infected by and I do not have the antibiotic
No matter what anyone says or does to me it will never take away from who I am, how far i've come, and all that I have yet to accomplish
Only tell on a need to know basis
Less squares make your circle smaller
oh and last but not least
"THEY'RE ALWAYS MAD WHEN YOU'RE STYLING ON THEM"
WOOOO SAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Monday, May 3, 2010
Saturday, May 1, 2010
My next man is the regular dude. This dude consist of the tshirt and jeans call it a day, but is still willing to
do whatever he has too, to keep you stuck to him. There is other guy who just buy me stuff to get my attention and to keep me in mind little do he know I am not interested in him at all! LADIES if this dude buy you stuff return it! Especially if you have no form of relationship with him because of course being a stalker is not only his thing,but he will need to be placed in a mental ward because truly in his heart he is sooooo in love! This guy one guy I dated but cut short because he was needy because like that and surely a sista ran the other way. LADIES! Don't limit yourself and surely don't take nothing from him because dudes like the owning factor.
Last is my favorite the dude just don't got it! This is deticated to my baby mama Gigi who shut down all that baby mama shit and showed that women can always hold their own. Ladies if you have a baby father who ain't right by you and you surely seen never was just get on your high horse and put all those worries behind because you and your baby will be fine! Now I know there are a few girls who desperately love their wack ass bf and the nigga just ain't got it! Be like my baby mama after she pushed out the baby she lost all the weight she had, focused on her to children, and told her bf fuck off because obviously he is the same nigga who just don't got it! So for you ladies who run behind a dude who just ain't got it, you look deseperate and no one like a desperate chick! FYI if you feel this is you don't get offended it should make you stronger. Ladies look at these men and go and focus on yourself because in life if your Independent like me and simply tash b and even Gigi and let dudes like these go.
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Saturday, April 24, 2010
Mr. right and Mr. right now
Today after having a beautiful lunch with Tash B. I seen a home girl on facebook. She is married, with a child (who is not her husband's), she has no education past high school, and last; her man lives in a whole different place and he has a child with another girl! See now I am not saying that the situation is bad, but it works for her. I say this every time I see a friend in a horrible situation and I tell you, LADIES STOP LIMITING YOURSELVES! We look at ourselves in the mirror every morning and catch ourselves playing the I REFUSE! game. Stop sayig I refuse this or that, but that I will try this or that. Ladies to limit yourself is just a set up, not to the good life, but to the low life.
Many of my family members, friends, and yes parents! judge me about being single, but what I do ignore it. I never seem to make myself feel sour about being single I actually enjoy it , as Samantha (sitc) would say " why be stuck with one man, when you can try them all" and that's what I decided to do try them all, and when I mean them all I mean men of all ages, races, and styles. I have a preference and in due time if we are meant to be together he will transition in to the man I held down, respected, and fell in love with. Not the man I created.
We think in life that all we have to do which is get a man, build the man we want him to be, and voila la hombre de dreams appears! right! nope wrong. When you build a man you build a man for another woman. When you have a man just do the three obvious things; never seem available, never call him to many times, and always show him you have options; as much as a brother will tell you he hates the chase, girl he really appreciates it. A man never continues with a female with avaiblitity, and if he does he is a control freak! I always find myself to be very outspoken, and maybe a lot of "boys" might feel I am doing to much, but a "man" will see what is wrong about him and try to change for the better of the relationship.
Ladies to complete this I say Live Love and Louboutins because your way of life is the only way you can be proud of whom you are.
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
HATERS ARE ESSENTIAL!!!!
Sunday, April 18, 2010
good friend, bad friend, and straight plain ole hater
To all my bbf I love ya'll especially you tash
Sunday, April 11, 2010
Let's shop till we drop!
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Saturday, April 3, 2010
Rethinking Life, Marriage, and Yourself
Friday, April 2, 2010
Content
Top down approved!!!
10 Dating Rules to Help Single Gals Stay Sane
Side Chicks
1) Don’t be one.
2) Don’t be one.
3) No really, honey…don’t be one.
I totally agree with ALL three however there is an exception to the rule and that is not KNOWING you're the side chick!!!!
Check out the article
http://clutchmagonline.com/lifeculture/feature/the-official-official-rules-for-side-chicks/
Sunday, March 28, 2010
Dating and just plain ole' hanging out
signing out ....
Org. Diva
QUANTITY VS QUALITY
Saturday, March 27, 2010
Vacations for Divas
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Shoe Language !!!!!
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Thursday, March 25, 2010
INSPIRATION
BEEN GONE FOR A MINUTE NOW I'M BACK WITH THE JUMPOFF...
Sunday, February 28, 2010
Hello Single Life!
Today blog is dedicated to the lovely single ladies not only of the Big Shoe (my slogan of NYC), but all across the ocean and seas. Single -unmarried or unattached, now my definition; Single - happy, exciting, and experience. Today a lot of us especially the female species , believe that if we are not in a relationship by 25 it's a mid life crisis or that something is wrong with us, and if not married by 30 it's the end of the world. We watch shows like Girlfriends, Sex in the City, and The Hills , and see that being in our mid 20's and 30's that more women are successful, beautiful, and more opinionated. Ladies, wake up; this is 2010 we don't need a man to fulfill us just to be our partner in crime. Last week, Tasha B and myself were both watching a sermon by Joel Olsen and he referred to us to learn to patiently wait. As a 25 year old woman, I have come to realize that even though I am still young!, but I am still getting older?! I look at my challenges with men is just a way for me to breakdown the men I been with, and analzye them to learn what I like and don't like. So all you lovely ladies that feel like it's the end of the world because your single; EMBRACE! SHOP! and SEEK! prince charming is only a few minutes away, but a few months and probably years from being mr. right! So take your time and enjoy the single life signing out !
Da Org. DIVA
Saturday, February 27, 2010
highs and Lows- Dinner Date
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